Frame the issue
- Tell your employee that you care about them
- Don't let your employee scaring to speak out
- Create a culture encouraging people to say
- Compassion is the ability to have sympathy.
Why this matters?
- People want to be cared, to be valued
- People want to learn, to grow, to become better
- Manager needs to also have LQ(Love)
What's at stake?
- Directness is the necessary key factor of puzzles
Evaluating your style
- Being so compassionate, so direct, that people can hear you
How to communicate
- Do you know what kind of leader you are? Compassionate?
- You need to be willing to grow, to learn.
- Most people would like to be approval
- I know it is a challenge, but I care about you, I want you to succeed.
Mindful Communication
- Have a craft environment, that person is going to feel safe.
- 2-way conversation
- No one wants to be wrong
- Give attention to the environment
The burden of indirectness
- Create an environment to be direct
The importance of trust in a relationship
- Make people feel if they speak out, they will be safe
- Build the environment, as a company they are important
- Message should be consistent
- People would like to know how much you really care about them
What is feedback and why is it important?
- Negative feedback makes people think they are wrong
- Building trust is the baseline
- Feedback allows people to do better, it's not about who you are, is about what you're doing
- Create an environment people feel they are valued
- Feedback is the most important thing to get success
Key takeaways
- Can I lead compassionately direct?
- How can I build trust? How do I create the space the people feel free?
Compassionate Directness (linkedin.com)